Chinuch is not a science with absolute rules * Creating a framework of warmth, peacefulness, nachas and menuchah * If we have mercy on our children, Hashem will have mercy on us * Our children must feel wanted * Letting go of the “I” in raising children * The dependence on the mother in teaching Torah * Aharon Ha’kohen’s example – saying yes with love * Making a set time for each child * Children must know that Hashem loves them